Gender and identity are integral parts of our soul and spirit. Gender identity and sexual preferences are fluid and almost never 100% one label or another. Our preferences and how we express them can change over our lifetime. This is OK! You can be your own individual exactly how you are and that is good. Matching the expression of who you are on the inside with who you are on the outside can be challenging. The supreme court legalized marriage with their ruling June 26th 2015. But the country is not without bias and judgement of non-binary marriages. There are still some unsafe places for self expresion-even here in Fort Collins Colorado. Identifying spaces where we are allowed to express ourselves fully and where we have allies are important. Working on who is safe and how much we can say to whom is important.